Unavoidable, Adventures in Aging
The idea for Unavoidable came about when Sue, Shan, along with their two siblings realized their parents were not “Nucking Futs” they were just aging. As adult children of aging parents, they discovered they weren’t sailing this boat solo. Fast forward to today, Sue and Shan are facing the music that they too are not immune to the aging process and they are not about to keep mum about it! Cue the birth of their podcast, where they spill the beans and share their wisdom with the universe.
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Episodes

Jul 31, 2026
Jul 31, 2026
34 min
Have You Read It? Theo of Golden - The Ending
Looking for some positivity in your life right now? Does it seem like the only news is bad news lately?
Please join Sue and Shan on Unavoidable-Adventures in Aging as we present our first book talk. We have often talked about actually reading a book and discussing it on the podcast someday. Well, thanks to a recommendation from a couple of listeners, today is that day and Theo of Golden by Allen Levi is the perfect book to start with.
This book was such a welcome departure from all the negativity going on around us right now. Theo of Golden reminds us that there is so much good in the world. We just have to take time, slow down, listen, and recognize it.
Sue and Shan share their impressions of Theo and all those he meets…an artist, a barista, a homeless woman, an aspiring musician, and so many more. He manages to bring them all together as friends and family. All it takes is a kind word, a thoughtful gesture, and someone who truly listens - things we could all do if we would just take the time.

Jul 24, 2026
Jul 24, 2026
29 min
This week’s episode of Unavoidable-Adventures in Aging is truly a family affair.
Sue and Shan recently enjoyed getting together with our family for our annual reunion, EDC-Ellis Days Celebration. Amid the eating, games, laughing, …and drinking, we asked our kids and grandkids to help write this episode. The famous Raspberry Sherbert bucket was put to use. We asked everyone to write their answers to the question, “What are your burning questions or worries about aging?” and pop them in the bucket.
There are bound to be some interesting conversations as we respond to their questions!

Jul 17, 2026
Jul 17, 2026
38 min
Season 4 is coming to a close so Sue has selected her favorite episode from this season. Enjoy a "rerun"....
“Gone, but not forgotten” is the saying, but Sue and Shan prove this week that, unfortunately, that’s not always the case.
Chanhassen Alan, Shan’s brother-in-law, joins us this week in a little game created by Tim, our Production Supervisor. Tim has put his research skills to work assembling a list of “famous” people who died in 2025. Alan will give us the date and a few clues as to who this person is and we will try to come up with a name.
Join us this week playing, “Gone But Not Forgotten”, and see if you can do better than we did.
(We have no doubt that you will!)
And thank you, Alan, for being such an amazing MC and faithful fan!

Jul 10, 2026
Jul 10, 2026
42 min
Season 4 is coming to a close so Sue has selected her favorite episode from this season. Enjoy a "rerun"....Sue and Shan are contemplating if we older people are wondering if any one still sees us. Everyday, 11,000 Americans are turning 65. No wonder we ask the question, “Do you see me?” We are finding that retirement is not always a bed of roses. It can be lonely, frightening, and sad. It does not have to be that way for retired people, all people matter, it just that sometimes we as individuals have to find our purpose. Unavoidable, Adventures in Aging helps tell older people find that purpose and explains the importance of “mattering.”

Jul 3, 2026
Jul 3, 2026
41 min
Theo of Golden got us thinking about other books we have enjoyed over the years. From our elementary years to our golden years, we have those books that have stayed with us. Do you have a favorite book that you read as a kid or maybe some that you read to your own kids? Even some of the professional books you’ve read may have left a lasting impression.
Please join Sue and Shan this week on Unavoidable-Adventures in Aging as they share some of their favorite reads.

Jun 26, 2026
Jun 26, 2026
49 min
Looking for some positivity in your life right now? Does it seem like the only news is bad news lately?
Please join Sue and Shan on Unavoidable-Adventures in Aging as we present our first book talk. We have often talked about actually reading a book and discussing it on the podcast someday. Well, thanks to a recommendation from a couple of listeners, today is that day and Theo of Golden by Allen Levi is the perfect book to start with.
This book was such a welcome departure from all the negativity going on around us right now. Theo of Golden reminds us that there is so much good in the world. We just have to take time, slow down, listen, and recognize it.
Sue and Shan share their impressions of Theo and all those he meets…an artist, a barista, a homeless woman, an aspiring musician, and so many more. He manages to bring them all together as friends and family. All it takes is a kind word, a thoughtful gesture, and someone who truly listens - things we could all do if we would just take the time.
Theo of Golden by Allen Levi Narrated by David Morris
The Dash by Linda Ellis

Jun 19, 2026
Jun 19, 2026
32 min
Families come in all types and sizes and so do family reunions. You may not get along with every member of your family all the time, but for one day or weekend each year it’s great to get together to celebrate your crew.
Do you have special foods each year? How about a theme or entertainment? What are your family reunion traditions that you look forward to? This week on Unavoidable-Adventures in Aging, Sue and Shan will discuss the various kinds of get-togethers, including our own!

Jun 12, 2026
Jun 12, 2026
36 min
“Gone, but not forgotten” is the saying, but Sue and Shan prove this week that, unfortunately, that’s not always the case.
Chanhassen Alan, Shan’s brother-in-law, joins us this week in a little game created by Tim, our Production Supervisor. Tim has put his research skills to work assembling a list of “famous” people who died in 2025. Alan will give us the date and a few clues as to who this person is and we will try to come up with a name.
Join us this week playing, “Gone But Not Forgotten”, and see if you can do better than we did.
(We have no doubt that you will!)
And thank you, Alan, for being such an amazing MC and faithful fan!

Jun 5, 2026
Jun 5, 2026
32 min
Unavoidable - Adventures in Aging offers a 2 for 1 episode this week. We start with sharing our listeners’ response to our question, “What is the most significant election you have participated in so far?” We have some really thoughtful, intelligent listeners!
Are we all destined to become rude “olders” with no filters? Well, to a certain extent…yes! Sue and Shan discuss “The Age Of Audacity”in the second part of this week’s show.

May 29, 2026
May 29, 2026
1 hr 4 min
Not only can she help find where you buried grandma, this week’s guest, Becci Thomas, can also guide you through your search for your lone-lost relatives or find your yearbook that you misplaced in one of your many moves over the years. Becci, director of the Knight Museum and Sandhills Center keeps Sue and Shan entertained as she explains all the other services the museum provides. She is the local expert on researching genealogy, managing the archives of family histories and as to finding grandma? We can’t wait to join Becci on her next cemetery tour or grave witching!! All of this and more this week on Unavoidable - Adventures in Aging.



